I followed these 2 articles to find the connector and make sure the wires were correct.
The connector is way, and I mean way up there.
The connector is only there is you have the factory tow package.
If not, you will need to add it.
I added a Tekonsha trailer brake controller a while back. I've been lazy about getting this one posted, but figured it could help someone. I used a RAM Mount X-grip with my previously installed Carolina Metal Masters A-Pillar 1" Ball Mount solution, and just ran the harness up to the dash. I...
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I've had zero issue with mine, towed 4x including a thousand mile round trip to ny. I'd make sure your trailer connector is clean and making good contact with the pins on the jeep. I'm using a hopkins agility controller with the tekonsha pigtail.
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