I also live in Wisconsin, and I picked up my 4xe in December. I hit F.O.R.M. at 43 miles. Communication with the dealer led me to a guess on why F.O.R.M. hit so soon. In the factory, twords the end of assembly, they perform a series of short engine runs for testing. Another short engine run to move off the assembly line and park in a parking spot, waiting for shipping. A short engine run to load Jeep onto truck. And who knows how many transfers (and short runs) during shipping. A short run to unload the Jeep at the dealership. Once at the dealership there is more short runs. My dealer estimates 8-12 short runs moving around the dealership when completing setup, inspection, charging (notice all the short runs before charging. I dont know the batterylevel from the factory) , fuel, washing and detailing, any other dealer installed stuff.
In short you need to make a long drive, get the oil above 178F for 20-120 min. ( hard to do when it's 10F out...)
If you want to run in electric only mode, try to prevent the engine from starting. Heater (seems to) max out at 7Kw. The battery heater will use 7Kw, the cabin heater will use 7Kw, total for both is 14Kw. The heater cannot do both at max output. If you (in Wisconsin you will) run both, the engine will turn on.
For me, if the engine turns on, I switch to eSave and finish my trip using gas.