Thanks for your reply - great questions - not insulted at all!
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both locations to which I earlier referred, there are actually three Tesla chargers - two of them are the "normal" Tesla destination chargers (as I understand from the descriptions) and the third one is the Tesla charger with the J-1772 connector that I tried to use. See photos below - in the first photo, the leftmost charger is the one with J-1772 connector (and not my 4xe in the photo, obviously

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I also thought the blue blinking light was related to scheduled charging, but I did confirm at that time that scheduled charging was disabled (and I don't leverage this feature anyhow).
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